The Gift of Fear
Survival signals that protect us from violence
Format:Paperback
Publisher:Bloomsbury Publishing PLC
Should be back in stock very soon

'De Becker has a lot to say about crime and fear of crime, and he says it persuasively in THE GIFT OF FEAR. His blend of empathy, reassurance and common sense wows readers, just like it wowed the audience on Oprah' NEWSWEEK 'A modern-day survival manual for everyone in our society This book contains wisdom that transcends traditional approaches to violence' Robert Ressler, FBI Behavioural Scientist 'A thorough and compassionate primer for people concerned about their safety and the safety of their families. This book not only empowers the reader, but also captures your attention and doesn't let go until the end' Meryl Streep
Written by the man Oprah Winfrey calls the US' leading expert on violent behaviour, this work shows you how to spot even subtle signs of danger - before it's too late. It offers specific ways to protect yourself and those you love, including: how to act when approached by a stranger; and when you should fear someone close to you.In this empowering book, Gavin de Becker, the man Oprah Winfrey calls the US' leading expert on violent behaviour, shows you how to spot even subtle signs of danger - before it's too late. Shattering the myth that most violent acts are unpredictable, de Becker, whose clients include top Hollywood stars and government agencies, offers specific ways to protect yourself and those you love, including: how to act when approached by a stranger; when you should fear someone close to you; what to do if you are being stalked; how to uncover the source of anonymous threats or phone calls; the biggest mistake you can make with a threatening person; and more. You can learn to spot the danger signals others miss. It might just save your life.
A thorough and compassionate primer for people concerned about their safety and the safety of their families. This book not only empowers the reader, but also captures your attention and doesn’t let go until the end. -- Meryl Streep
A how-to book that reads like a thriller . . . provocative . . . empowering. * Boston Globe *
De Becker has a lot to say about crime and the fear of crime, and he says it persuasively...His blend of empathy, reassurance, and common sense wows readers. * Newsweek *
The Gift of Fear offers the gift of survival. Read it. -- Linden Gross, author of TO HAVE OR TO HARM
Superb and compelling, bringing into focus the complexity of human response to real or perceived danger. De Becker redefines the parameters of fear and challenges the basis of a fear response. This book is for everyone who has ever feared. -- Ann Wolpert Burgess, Professor of Nursing, University of Pennsylvania
This book can save your life . . . It should be read by everyone who wants to triumph over fear. -- Scott Gordon, former Chairman of the Los Angeles County Domestic Violence Council
The ability to protect oneself from violent behaviour, largely through one’s own intuition, is the central premise of de Becker’s book – thus, fear is a gift. The book taps the anxieties of an era. * New York Times *
Gavin de Becker’s book is the first to explain that our powers of intuition are the best protection we have against violence. -- Daniel M. Petrocelli, lead counsel for plaintiffs in Fred Goldman v O.J. Simpson
A tour de force . . . Riveting, instructive, a book that dissects the phenomenon of violence, unravels its mysteries, and shows us how to prevail. -- Erika Holzer, author of EYE FOR AN EYE
Should be required reading for women and their loved ones. It offers potentially life-saving information in a style that is compelling. It is by far the best book I have read on how to handle violence, and I recommend it to one and all. -- Theresa Saldana, actress and founder of Victims for Victims
Gavin de Becker’s brilliant insights and encyclopedic familiarity with the minds of criminals have made powerful contributions to the successful prosecution of many cases, including mine, and now he shares that knowledge with his readers. -- Marcia Clark, prosecutor
De Becker moves the reader from victim to victor as he identifies the God-given abilities we all have to avoid the risks we face from our society’s predators. These real-life stories in The Gift of Fear create the picture better than any camera ever could. -- Casey Gwinn, City Attorney
ISBN: 9780747538356
Dimensions: 128mm x 196mm x 21mm
Weight: 247g
352 pages