Growing Yourself Up
How to bring your best to all of life’s relationships
Format:Paperback
Publisher:Exisle Publishing
Published:1st Nov '17
Should be back in stock very soon

The 2nd edition of this bestselling book helps you understand yourself by understanding your relationships. Drawing on Bowen family systems theory, the book explores each life stage to see predictable relationship patterns and make purposeful self-adjustments. The result is improved relationships and a sturdier self.
To be human is to be in relationships. We can’t survive without them but it’s in relationships that we can so easily get unravelled. Some relationships just seem to do us in. Either we feel like we lose ourselves or feel burnt out from futile efforts to make things right for another. In our relationships we can experience the very best of ourselves and the very worst.
The message of Growing Yourself Up is that you can’t separate understanding the individual from understanding relationships. All of life’s relationships are integral to increasing self-awareness and maturity. And it’s not necessarily the comfortable relationships that promote personal growth. In this 2nd edition of the bestselling book, Jenny examines how to help others without fostering dependency, and how to determine what kind of help you or others want from therapists. This is in response to the many lay and professional people who have found this book valuable personally and want to know how to help others grow.
Drawing from Bowen family systems theory, the book takes you on a journey through each stage of life to see predictable patterns of relationships and to show how to use this knowledge to make purposeful adjustments in yourself; as well as lending a mature helping hand to others. The result is a sturdier self, sturdier relationships and a refreshing new way to view life’s challenges and opportunities.
“Growing Yourself Up is a great read for anyone feeling like they’re about to lose themselves or feeling burnt out by trying to make things right for others.”
- Naturally Australia
“This is a book I found really confronting and I love it.” - This Complex Life, with Marie Vakakis
“Brown addresses the opportunities for growing up at any stage of life, right up to and including the dying process. I like the way she looks at young adulthood, marriage, facing setbacks such as divorce, midlife, aging and the end of life. She uses engaging real-life examples of people responding to challenges throughout the life process.” - Margaret Marcuson, Leadership in Ministry workshops
“It is a very helpful read for anyone, as Jenny encourages us to reflect on the maturity levels in our relationships. This is a very useful challenge for us all.” - Engage Work Faith
"Jenny Brown's book, Growing Yourself Up, can be an invaluable resource. For you, for any mom, for anyone.” - Homeschool Mom Wellness & Mindset Coach
ISBN: 9781925335194
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296 pages
Second Edition