A Place of Refuge

An Experiment in Communal Living – The Story of Windsor Hill Wood

Tobias Jones author

Format:Paperback

Publisher:Quercus Publishing

Published:21st Apr '16

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This book explores the transformative journey of a family who opens their home to those in crisis, discovering community and healing along the way in A Place of Refuge.

In A Place of Refuge, the narrative unfolds around Tobias Jones and his wife as they seek to address the paradox of modern life: despite advancements, happiness seems elusive. In a bold move, they open their family home and a ten-acre woodland to individuals facing significant challenges, including depression, addiction, and loneliness. This decision leads them on a journey filled with remarkable encounters, from the quirky 'Roadkill Kev' to the enchanting 'Mary Poppins'. Together, they work through the complexities of human connection, building a chapel and raising pigs, all while navigating the spectrum of human behavior, from hostility to unexpected kindness.

As they immerse themselves in this lifestyle, the couple confronts their own beliefs and ideals. They learn that fostering a sense of community involves not only nurturing others but also being open to scrutiny and transformation. Their experiences over five years reveal the importance of shared meals, collaborative labor, and a commitment to change. They embrace the challenge of creating a drug-free environment while allowing space for personal growth and healing.

Ultimately, A Place of Refuge is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the power of community. It illustrates how, through patience and understanding, it is possible to forge connections that can lead to profound change. Tobias and his family discover that their journey is not just about helping others but also about finding their own place within a shared narrative of hope and recovery.

This is no Hollywood-style tale of redemption and transformation. It is something much more honest: a warts-and-all account of what it is like to try a radically different way of living, and to not only survive, but have real triumphs . . . Thanks to Jones's sense of humour the book rarely feels "worthy", in the pejorative sense, despite the subject matter . . . Admirably erudite, charming and reflective . . . To read this book is to imagine, even if only briefly, that a different way of living might be possible. -- Alice O'Keefe * Guardian *
Fascinating and remarkable . . . a study of compassion in action * Sunday Times *
This is an enjoyable book * Mail on Sunday *
[I was] Amused and moved by this book . . . The Joneses' desire to rescue lost people is both magnificent and astonishing * The Times *
Chosen as a summer read by Julian Baggini * Observer *
Extremely gripping and moving . . . Often very funny . . . Jones writes beautifully about the changing seasons . . . Each night I looked forward to reading this book. Clearly there is something in our psychological make-up that longs to be part of an 'extended household', breaking bread with strangers. Or - at least - to experience it voyeuristically through the pages of a captivating memoir * Independent *
There is much beauty in the story of Windsor Hill Wood, the rural idyll that Jones and Fra create together. He manages to take us with him into it . . . Jones is a sublime writer, who has the ability to bring tears to the eye * Daily Telegraph *
It's a gentle meditation on a brave venture that leaves the reader uplifted and even a little enlightened * Press Association *
It is Jones's humanity and gift for characterisation that make his book so captivating . . . His account rings with universal truths . . . A Place of Refuge asks difficult questions about how often mental illness is connected with the fact that 'community', as it's currently understood, is delivered through a screen * Financial Times *
A wonderful book describing the bosky - sometimes bolshie - community he and his wife set up for allcomers: recovering alcoholics, addicts and anoxerics. It is written with the keenest eye for nature - human and leafy - and a wisdom learned the hard way (perhaps there is no other way) -- Kate Kellaway * Observer *

ISBN: 9781848662513

Dimensions: 196mm x 130mm x 28mm

Weight: 240g

368 pages