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Uncomfortable Labels

My Life as a Gay Autistic Trans Woman

Laura Kate Dale author

Format:Paperback

Publisher:Jessica Kingsley Publishers

Published:18th Jul '19

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This memoir explores the author's journey as a gay trans woman on the autism spectrum, highlighting the intersections of identity and personal growth.

In Uncomfortable Labels, Laura Kate Dale presents a groundbreaking memoir that intricately weaves together her experiences of gender identity, sexuality, and autism. The narrative takes readers on a journey from her childhood to her late twenties, exploring the complexities of growing up as a gay trans woman on the autism spectrum. Through a series of insightful essays, Dale candidly shares her struggles with sensory processing, social interactions, and the challenges of feminine presentation, all while navigating her unique identity in a world that often feels unwelcoming.

The memoir delves deep into the author's personal experiences, revealing the intersectionality of autism and gender. Dale recounts her journey of self-discovery, detailing moments of confusion and clarity, particularly during her transition and diagnosis. Her reflections serve not only as a personal account but also as a broader commentary on the societal expectations surrounding neurotypical behavior and heterosexual norms. The narrative is infused with both humor and honesty, making it relatable for anyone who has ever felt out of place.

Uncomfortable Labels ultimately offers an empowering perspective on the nuances of identity. It is a life-affirming read for those who have struggled with their sense of belonging, providing comfort and understanding to anyone who has felt they don't quite fit in. Dale's story is a testament to resilience and the importance of embracing one's true self, regardless of societal labels.

Hauntingly relatable, Uncomfortable Labels is an incredibly necessary tale of living at the intersection of transgender and autistic identities. Humorously and accessibly written, Laura Kate Dale's story treads grounds scarcely discussed in memoir. A valuable addition to any library collection - personal or academic - on disability or gender issues. -- Jes Grobman, writer and sexuality educator
Laura has written something that highlights the personal challenges that arise from an intersection of identities that are commonly paired, but rarely discussed in the public sphere. -- Mia Violet, author of Yes, You Are Trans Enough

As well as being incredibly informative, the book was a joy to read, due to Laura's unique voice...
The book is overall an inspiring, celebratory read, and marks Laura's talent of being able to balance the uplifting drive of the book with the harder struggles and serious topics she writes honestly about.

* NetGalley reviewer *

A brilliant memoir about Laura's life and the ways being autistic and trans intersect.. Autistic people are much more likely to be on the LGBTQ spectrum than allistic people and it was really interesting to have it highlighted here as it's something that is often ignored but adds to the struggles we face. There were so many moments I identified with (I think I highlighted about half the book) and helped me understand parts of my life as an autistic person. It's always amazing to read anecdotes from someone elses life that could read as if they were talking about you. It's one of the best things about the autistic community speaking about their experiences...
It's my favourite book about autism that I've read since being diagnosed and recommend it to any autistic people whether they are LGBTQ or not, as well as to anyone who wants to learn more about trans or autistic experiences.

* NetGalley reviewer *
In this memoir, Laura Kate Dale discusses her life as a gay trans autistic woman. She does a fantastic job explaining to the reader how each of her identities has affected her life, and how the identities intersect and affect each other. It was an effective way to gain some insight into the thoughts and feelings of a person dealing with so many challenges presented to them by a society that often lacks care and understanding. Highly recommend. * NetGalley reviewer *
This book is a masterpiece that tells an uplifting tale of victory in the face of hardships, and the battle it often takes to be uncompromisingly true to yourself. Uncomfortable Labels is a must-read for anyone on the autism spectrum, any member of the LGBTAIQ+ community, anyone who knows someone in either group, or anyone who wants greater insight into the myriad of ways minority labels (especially working in conjunction) effect those who bear them. * NetGalley reviewer *
Dale's prose is charmingly matter-of-fact and conversational, weaving in asides on cats, video games, and her "favourite ever vegan chocolate cheesecake," and she perceptively identifies the challenges she has faced and workable solutions for them. This hopeful and reflective account will resonate with readers affected by similar issues and inspire others. * Publishers Weekly *

ISBN: 9781785925870

Dimensions: 196mm x 128mm x 18mm

Weight: 180g

192 pages