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The Simple Guide to Understanding Shame in Children

What It Is, What Helps and How to Prevent Further Stress or Trauma

Betsy de Thierry author Emma Reeves illustrator

Format:Paperback

Publisher:Jessica Kingsley Publishers

Published:18th Oct '18

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This guide offers essential insights into shame in children, equipping adults with the knowledge to support and uplift them effectively.

In The Simple Guide to Understanding Shame in Children, readers are presented with a comprehensive overview of shame and its implications for children. The book begins by defining shame, explaining how it manifests in young individuals and the various ways it can impact their emotional and psychological development. This foundational understanding is crucial for adults who wish to support children in overcoming feelings of shame, which can often lead to long-lasting effects on self-esteem and behavior.

The author, Betsy de Thierry, provides practical advice aimed at parents, caregivers, and professionals who work with children. She addresses common questions regarding how shame affects children, offering insights into the emotional struggles they may face. Through relatable examples and straightforward explanations, The Simple Guide to Understanding Shame in Children empowers adults to recognize signs of shame and respond effectively. This guidance is essential in fostering a supportive environment where children can flourish.

Furthermore, the book emphasizes the importance of restoring self-esteem and confidence in children. De Thierry shares strategies that adults can implement to help children navigate their feelings, ultimately aiding them in overcoming shame. With its accessible language and practical tips, this guide serves as an invaluable resource for anyone involved in the care and support of children, ensuring they have the tools necessary to make a positive impact on their lives.

Another brilliant book by Betsy de Thierry. Shame is such a crucial area and emotion, however one that is often overlooked. Therefore it is great to see a book that offers a deeper understanding and practical ideas for support around shame. This book is written in an accessible, engaging, and informative way. The doodles and reflective questions are fantastic too. A welcome addition to any book shelf! -- Karen Treisman

Thorough, underpinned by extensive researched and well articulated.

de Thierry manages to write a short guide about shame, a challenging task but one very well executed. If you're looking to understand shame, how it seeps into our being from a very young age and how 'toxic shame can be like a poison in our subconscious', then this guide is for you. For parents, educators, therapists and social workers, this guide is an essential starting point pulling together all the latest knowledge, research and experience.

-- Lisa Cherry, BA (Hons) Sociology, ITEC Dip HM, S.A.C. Dip., Life Coaching and Counselling, Reiki Master
The Simple Guide to Understanding Shame in Children by Betsy de Thierry is thoughtful insight into how shame has such a pervading hold on us all, sometimes with disastrous consequences. De Thierry argues that feelings of shame are often at the root of unhelpful behaviours and linked to a primeval fear we may be abandoned or rejected by our tribe or society. Unwittingly, though, it remains a thread that runs through traditional parenting and the education system, driving the sensitive child towards shame rather than away from it and cutting off crucial relationships with others. The Simple Guide to Understanding Shame in Children by Betsy de Thierry is an important read for adoptive parents and those working with children who may already be sensitive to shame due to damaging life experiences. This book provides a key to understanding the sometimes bewildering and distressing behaviours by those locked in the grip of shame. -- Jill Turner, Editor, Adoption Today

ISBN: 9781785925054

Dimensions: 196mm x 128mm x 18mm

Weight: 105g

112 pages