You’re Not Listening

What You’re Missing and Why It Matters

Kate Murphy author

Format:Paperback

Publisher:Vintage Publishing

Published:7th Jan '21

Should be back in stock very soon

You’re Not Listening cover

This insightful book examines the importance of listening in our lives. You're Not Listening teaches readers how to connect meaningfully with others.

In You're Not Listening, author Kate Murphy explores the art of listening, a skill that has become increasingly rare in today's fast-paced world. She emphasizes the importance of truly hearing others, rather than simply waiting for our turn to speak. Through a series of engaging anecdotes and insights drawn from her diverse conversations with individuals from all walks of life, Murphy illustrates how effective listening can enhance our relationships and foster deeper connections with those around us.

Murphy highlights the barriers that prevent us from listening effectively, such as the distractions of modern technology and the tendency to dominate conversations. By addressing these challenges, You're Not Listening offers practical strategies for improving our listening skills. The author argues that listening is not just a passive activity but an active engagement that can lead to personal growth, increased empathy, and greater creativity. She encourages readers to embrace listening as a vital part of communication, rather than a mere formality.

Ultimately, You're Not Listening is a call to action for anyone seeking to improve their interactions and build more meaningful connections. It serves as a reminder that in a world where everyone is eager to be heard, the greatest gift we can offer is our undivided attention. With a new afterword by the author, this book provides a fresh perspective on the transformative power of listening.

The premise of this book couldn't be more timely... inspiringly profound… Smart and playful... It feels like a reiteration of something essential... Murphy is here to remind us – entertainingly and compellingly – exactly why it matters so much, especially right now. Hear, hear. -- Viv Groskop * Observer *
Gripping from start to finish... brilliant…extraordinarily interesting…full of meat and gold. -- Chris Evans * Virgin Radio Breakfast Show *
Fiercely topical... You're Not Listening is an intriguing and constructive take on the problem... and amanual for better communication. Murphy’s book is intelligent and thought-provoking… Listening is when someone take a real interest in whoyou are…a moment of attunement and understanding that sticks in both heads. We could all do with some of that. -- Melanie Reid * The Times *
It’s time for a spot of re-education... A fascinating guide to something we assume we do automatically, yet for the most part do very badly... The art of listening is really the art of being human. -- Stephen Moss * Guardian *
We are losing this most crucial, arguably, of our skills in the modern world... I'll be adopting Murphy's advice... and I will be employing "support" responses everywhere. -- Charlotte Edwardes * Sunday Times Style Magazine *

ISBN: 9781784709402

Dimensions: 197mm x 128mm x 18mm

Weight: 218g

304 pages