How to Be Dateable
The Essential Guide to Finding Your Person and Falling in Love
Yue Xu author Julie Krafchick author
Format:Hardback
Publisher:Simon & Schuster
Publishing:27th Feb '25
£20.00
This title is due to be published on 27th February, and will be despatched as soon as possible.

Does dating feel like an endless maze with no way out? Find your person with this actionable, compassionate guide that will help you break free from the traps of modern dating and change your approach to love.
As creators and hosts of the hit dating podcast Dateable, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu have made breaking down the nuances of the ever-evolving dating world and empowering the people within it their purpose and passion. Drawing on a decade’s worth of research from speaking to thousands of daters and world-renowned experts, Julie and Yue have learned what it takes to find love in today’s dating world. In How to Be Dateable, they’ll show you how to take control of your love life and focus on the levers that actually get you results.
Starting with a personalized dating archetypes quiz, this book will give you a richer understanding of your core dating strengths and how to turn around the obstacles that are keeping you from meeting the right people. You will discover how to:
-Feel more optimistic about finding love
-Choose partners who are aligned with your values
-Prioritize what’s in your control and release what’s not
-Date your way to find the right relationship for you
Written with the knowledge of experts and the warmth of a wise best friend, How to Be Dateable will give you a dating life that can ultimately help you find the I-can’t-believe-this-was-possible type of relationship you deserve.
“Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu are the real deal when it comes to dating experts. Their big-sister style advice is just what we need in an age where dating has never sucked harder. They cut right to the core of the dating malaise that has plagued millennials and gen Z since the invention of the dating app. How to be Dateable is warm and thoughtful and the antidote to dating fatigue.” -Greg Behrendt, coauthor of the NYT bestselling He's Just Not That Into You
“How to Be Dateable demonstrates clearly that you already have all the tools that you need to date successfully. This book will simply help you unlock them. A must-read for anyone hoping to find their person.”— Mark Groves: Human Connection Specialist, Author, Speaker, Coach, Podcast Host and Founder of Create The Love
"An empowering read to help you find your person." — Logan Ury, author of How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love
Given the complexities and challenges of today’s modern dating landscape, confidence in dating skills is a must. With concrete tips and real-world examples, How To Be Dateabledelivers on their promise to “stop falling for the traps” and “start falling in love.” – Alexandra H. Solomon, PhD, faculty at Northwestern University, bestselling author of Love Every Day, and host of the podcast, Reimagining Love
"Julie and Yue are fiercely intelligent, warm-hearted chroniclers of the path to love. In How To Be Dateable, you won’t find glib answers or gimmicky advice; instead, you’ll find real wisdom, game-changing insights, and tools that actually work. I’m so grateful that their book is out in the world. I can’t recommend it highly enough." -Ken Page, LCSW, psychotherapist, host of the Deeper Dating Podcast, and author of the best selling bookDeeper Dating
ISBN: 9781668030424
Dimensions: 229mm x 152mm x 33mm
Weight: 490g
336 pages