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I Am Not Your Baby Mother

THE SUNDAY TIMES BESTSELLER

Candice Brathwaite author

Format:Paperback

Publisher:Quercus Publishing

Published:4th Mar '21

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This insightful book explores the diverse experiences of black motherhood, challenging societal norms and advocating for representation. I Am Not Your Baby Mother is a vital read for all.

In I Am Not Your Baby Mother, Candice Brathwaite opens a candid dialogue about the diverse experiences of motherhood, particularly from the perspective of black mothers. When she became a mother, she noticed a stark contrast between her reality and the idealized images often seen in media. This led her to question the visibility of black mothers and the narratives surrounding motherhood in British society. Through her engaging writing, she highlights the absence of representation and the need for more inclusive discussions around parenting.

The book serves as both a memoir and a manifesto, addressing the unique challenges faced by black mothers, such as navigating white privilege, racial micro-aggressions, and unconscious bias. Candice's storytelling is infused with humor and authenticity, making her experiences relatable while also shedding light on the systemic issues that persist. She encourages mothers to embrace their individuality and challenge societal norms, creating a space for diverse voices in the parenting conversation.

With a blend of personal anecdotes and broader societal commentary, I Am Not Your Baby Mother is a vital resource for anyone interested in understanding the complexities of motherhood. It is not just a guide; it is a call to action for mothers everywhere to reclaim their narratives and redefine what it means to be a parent in today's world. Candice's refreshing perspective is a reminder that every mother’s journey is unique and deserving of recognition.

An essential exploration of the realities of black motherhood in the UK * Observer *
Blogger Candice Brathwaite is known for her beautifully constructed and refreshingly straight-talking Instagram captions, so we can't wait to read her urgent part-memoir, part-manifesto about black motherhood * Red magazine *
This book is about so much more than paid partnerships and a square-by-square existence. It is an energetic decimation of the narrow, middle-class white lens through which we culturally speak about motherhood; a humorous and sensitive navigation of the nuances within race (Candice, as a black British woman and her husband, as a Nigerian man); and a searing commentary, through the motif of a Bugaboo pushchair, on how class and race intersect. I gobbled it in one weekend and encourage everyone - mother, or otherwise - to do the same. * Pandora Sykes *
Written in her brilliantly witty manner, this book is every black British woman's motherhood manual * Refinery 29 *
Humorous but unflinching, every mother, everywhere, should read this book * OK Magazine *
She's the straight-talking social-media star who hates the word 'influencer', refuses to 'dress small' and is on a mission to portray a vision of motherhood inclusive of race and class * Stella Magazine *
Searing * Dolly Alderton *
Remarkable * Lorraine Kelly *
One of 2020's must-reads for all mums, new or experienced * Culture Whisper *
An observant and timely guide * Evening Standard *
A powerful challenge to narrow mainstream depictions of motherhood ... this is a book that will undoubtedly change the way we talk about motherhood in the UK * Lighthouse Books *
Important and necessary * i news *
I absolutely loved I Am Not Your Baby Mother * Giovanna Fletcher *
A brilliantly observed look at life as a black mother * Closer *
Brilliant * Sophie Ellis-Bextor *
Packed with insight for all women, whatever your race or parental status * Women’s Health Magazine *
The must-read book of the summer * Mother and Baby Magazine *
Brilliant ... as much an astoundingly good read as it is an essential one * Good Housekeeping *
A game-changing guide to Black motherhood * Red magazine *
To call Candice Brathwaite a mummy-blogger is to underplay the ground-breaking role she has played in challenging the white-washed, breton-striped representations of motherhood we see in the media and on Instagram. -- Elizabeth Morris * Crib Notes *
Really good ... accessible, sometimes shocking, honest, and feels written from the heart * Bernardine Evaristo *
Thought-provoking * Grazia *
An enormously important book about motherhood and systemic racism [...] compellingly written, it's alive with a fury it is impossible not to feel when reading * Daisy Johnson, author of Sisters *
This book is needed for the voiceless * Nadiya Hussain *
Frank and funny * the Scotsman *

ISBN: 9781529406283

Dimensions: 196mm x 128mm x 20mm

Weight: 169g

240 pages