Intimacy in Postmodern Times

'As sociological data – as a record of how academic intellectuals at the turn of the century spent their time – Peter Beilharz’s memoir is valuable enough; but it is also a searching exploration of his debt to one of the great social theorists of our age, Zygmunt Bauman.'
J. M. Coetzee

'This is a book about intellectual love, and less about Zygmunt Bauman, the object of love, than about the intellectual offering it, the author himself. Peter Beilharz is one of the most cosmopolitan, self-reflexive and generous social theorists in the world today. He is also the best writer. Beilharz mixes prose of sinewy subtlety with history, irony and cultural traffic. His memoir takes us backstage, to the emotional matrix within which social theory is made.'
Jeffrey C. Alexander, Lillian Chavenson Saden Professor of Sociology, Yale University

‘With Beilharz and Bauman as central performers, the tale told within these pages concerns how academic relationships are made and sustained either side of the internet revolution. It matters little, however, whether we know anything of our performers before the curtain raises – for upon this stage awaits a story of intellectual life fuelled by far more universal ideas of inspiration, admiration, labour, friendship, gain and loss.’
Mark Davis, Director of the Bauman Institute for Critical Sociology, University of Leeds

‘This book tells the story of an almost thirty-year relationship between two intellectuals who, despite their antipodal positions in Britain and Australia, fell in friendship just as people fall in love at first sight. Peter Beilharz takes the reader on an intimate journey through his friendship with Zygmunt Bauman, recounting their annual get-togethers and quoting extensively (and humorously) from his correspondence with both Bauman and his wife, Janina. Recalling their long and passionate discussions on sociology, culture, society, theory, politics and life, Beilharz opens the door to the personal lives of two thinkers, inviting the reader to get acquainted with the backstage of the intellectual world, where the greatest ideas are born. The result is a must-read, passionate book celebrating intellectual exchanges, powerful friendship and love.’
Izabela Wagner, Associate Professor of Sociology at Collegium Civitas, Warsaw and author of Bauman: A Biography

'The relationship between Beilharz and Bauman is, naturally, predominant; however, the work also opens up onto a far more expansive panorama.'
J.F. Dorahy, Australian Catholic University, Thesis Eleven

'Bauman was and continues to be Beilharz’s teacher, as he was his friend. And, both teachers and students figure conspicuously throughout this story as much for Beilharz as for me the reader, since his account settling cannot but encourage readers to balance the ledger and recall the large shoulders on which they ride.'
Christopher G. Robbins, Eastern Michigan University, Thesis Eleven