The Orchid and the Dandelion
Why Sensitive People Struggle and How All Can Thrive
Format:Paperback
Publisher:Pan Macmillan
Published:23rd Jan '20
Should be back in stock very soon
This insightful book explores the impact of genetics and environment on personality, highlighting the differences between resilient dandelions and sensitive orchids.
In The Orchid and the Dandelion, Dr. W. Thomas Boyce explores the fascinating interplay between genetics and environment in shaping our personalities. Through groundbreaking research, he introduces the concepts of dandelions and orchids, representing two distinct types of responses to life’s challenges. Dandelions are hardy and resilient, thriving in a variety of conditions, while orchids are sensitive and delicate, often requiring specific nurturing to flourish. This insightful framework not only helps us understand ourselves but also the children in our lives, guiding us towards more effective parenting and support strategies.
The book delves into the science behind these classifications, illustrating how certain traits can predispose individuals to either thrive or struggle based on their surroundings. By drawing on extensive studies and real-life examples, The Orchid and the Dandelion reveals why some children excel in various environments while others face significant hurdles. Dr. Boyce emphasizes the importance of recognizing these differences to foster an environment conducive to growth for all children, particularly those who are more vulnerable.
Ultimately, The Orchid and the Dandelion serves as a crucial resource for parents, educators, and anyone interested in personal development. It encourages a deeper understanding of our unique responses to life's challenges, offering practical advice on how to nurture the 'orchids' among us. Through this lens, readers can learn how to cultivate resilience and support the diverse needs of individuals, leading to more fulfilling lives.
This is a necessary and important book. -- Philippa Perry * Guardian *
Groundbreaking research that has the power to change the lives of countless children—and the adults who love them. -- Susan Cain, New York Times bestselling author of Quiet
This is the first parenting book I've read in a while that is based on common sense and science. It made me step back and look at each of my four children through different eyes. It is a powerful, groundbreaking read. And if you do have an orchid, it will help you parent them through even the hardest of times. -- Lorraine Candy, Sunday Times Magazine
A book for parents bewildered by their impossibly spirited children, for teachers interested in understanding the range of children in their care, for psychologists wanting insights into individual differences, and for students of the human condition everywhere. . . The Orchid and the Dandelion absorbed me like a novel. -- Psychology Today
A skilled pediatrician, a gifted scientist, and a lucid writer. He has a deep understanding of the “orchid child” and its underlying biology, and he has a compelling story to tell. There is an extensive audience of parents and teachers whose lives will be touched by this book. The well-being of their children and their students will reap enormous benefits from what Tom Boyce can teach us all about the valleys and the mountaintops of child development -- Jack P. Shonkoff M.D., Director, Center on the Developing Child at Harvard University; Professor of Pediatrics, Harvard Medical School and Boston Children’s Hospital
It’s a must read for all parents, teachers, and psychologists! -- John M. Gottmann, Ph.D., New York Times bestselling author of Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child
A true gift to parents and teachers globally -- Elissa S. Epel, Ph.D., Department of Psychiatry, UCSF
ISBN: 9781509805174
Dimensions: 198mm x 131mm x 20mm
Weight: 228g
320 pages