Sad Love
Romance and the Search for Meaning
Format:Hardback
Publisher:John Wiley and Sons Ltd
Published:3rd Jun '22
Should be back in stock very soon
This hardback is available in another edition too:
- Paperback£14.99(9781509539598)
In Sad Love, Carrie Jenkins presents a thought-provoking exploration of love's complexities, emphasizing the importance of embracing both joy and sorrow in our relationships.
In Sad Love, philosopher Carrie Jenkins explores the intricate dynamics of love, particularly from the perspective of a woman who navigates relationships with a husband and other partners. Love is often painted in rosy hues, associated with joy and fulfillment. However, Jenkins argues that love is much more complex, encompassing a range of emotions that can lead to discomfort and disappointment. The expectations society places on love can create unrealistic ideals that often leave us feeling let down by those we care for deeply.
Jenkins delves into the darker aspects of love, suggesting that rather than shying away from the pain it can bring, we should embrace it as an integral part of the human experience. The notion of “sad love” challenges the conventional narrative of love that promises perpetual happiness. Instead, it acknowledges that heartbreak and disappointment can coexist with love, enriching our understanding of it rather than detracting from it.
Through Sad Love, Jenkins invites readers to rethink their relationship with love, advocating for a philosophy that accepts both its joys and its sorrows. By liberating love from unrealistic expectations, we can find a deeper, more authentic connection with ourselves and others. This book serves as a call to embrace the full spectrum of love, recognizing that its complexities are what make it truly worthwhile.
“This book will transform the ways people think about their love relationships.”
Myisha Cherry, author of The Case for Rage
“Do you ever get that feeling that a book just sees you? That was how I felt reading Sad Love. Jenkins deconstructs popular notions of happiness and romantic love with her characteristic combination of compassion, originality and rigour, challenging us to reconsider our foundational assumptions about what our relationships should even be for. I want everyone to read this book.”
Eve Rickert, co-author of More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory
“Sad Love zings with frustration at fairy tales, Valentine’s cards, romance novels and the ‘happy ever after’.”
The Sunday Telegraph Magazine
“Jenkins […] brings a light-touch speculative air to her ruminations.”
London Magazine
“Jenkins’s consideration of love beyond the traditional monogamous romantic model stimulates, and she’s equally thought-provoking whether unpacking 19th-century philosophers or Disney songs.”
Publishers Weekly
“a powerful alternative to ‘happily ever after.’”
Readers’ Digest
ISBN: 9781509539581
Dimensions: 231mm x 142mm x 18mm
Weight: 340g
200 pages