In Praise of Love and Children

Melda Hayley navigates her role as a foster parent while confronting her past in In Praise of Love and Children, discovering strength through love and community.

In In Praise of Love and Children, Melda Hayley embarks on a journey of self-discovery as she embraces her role as a foster parent to children from the first generation of black settlers in a racially charged Britain. After navigating through false starts in both teaching and social work, Melda finds purpose in nurturing these vulnerable children. However, as she dedicates herself to their well-being, her own emotional struggles begin to surface, particularly when she confronts the fallout from her brother Arnie's marriage to a white woman. This familial rift adds to her inner turmoil, as she grapples with the pain of her past and the impact it has on her present.

The narrative delves into Melda's experiences as an 'outside child,' highlighting the traumas inflicted by her stepmother and the societal prejudices she faces. Yet, amid the challenges, Melda discovers resilience and strength through the memories of the strong women who surrounded her in her youth. Their love and support become a source of inspiration, guiding her through the darkest moments. Additionally, her father Pa, who has found stability in the USA, contributes a new dimension to her understanding of love and family, teaching her to celebrate the joy of life.

Author Beryl Gilroy, who immigrated from Guyana to London over fifty years ago, weaves a poignant tale that reflects her experiences as a pioneering teacher and psychotherapist. Though she passed away in 2000, her legacy lives on through her six novels and two autobiographical works, resonating with readers who seek to understand the complexities of love, family, and identity.