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Meet Me in the Middle

8 Mother-Daughter Conversations about Life and Faith

Sandra Stanley author Allie Stanley Cooney author

Format:Paperback

Publisher:Zondervan

Published:10th Oct '24

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You can have an open and trusting relationship with your teenager.Mother-and-daughter team Sandra Stanley and Allie Stanley Cooney write in alternating chapters to you and your middle school/early high school daughter in this unique, interaction-prompting book that will help you grow in connection, communication, and faith.

Some conversations between parent and child don't happen until a crisis forces them to occur. At that point, defenses go up, lines are drawn, feelings are hurt, and solutions seem out of reach. But what if those conversations happened before a crisis? This book helps make that happen. As leaders at one of the country's largest churches, Sandra Stanley and Allie Stanley Cooney not only have professional backgrounds working with young people, they have walked this path together. In Meet Me in the Middle, they draw on their experience to help you:

  • Use eight planned opportunities to have comfortable discussions with your daughter about the topics you care about most
  • Learn natural ways to communicate your faith
  • Hear firsthand what your daughter is most stressed about
  • Help your daughter navigate fear and anxiety
  • Approach the tricky subjects of friends, boys, and dating

Discussion questions, Scripture, activity ideas, and outing suggestions in Meet Me in the Middle help pave the way to a strong, trusting relationship. As you and your daughter step toward one another, you'll explore how you both can:

  • Grow in faith as you find your identity and self-worth in Christ
  • Avoid the comparison trap
  • Nurture healthy relationships
  • Keep communication open

Meet Me in the Middle guides you to a loving, trusting relationship with your tween or teen daughter as you grow closer, seek out God together, and enjoy each other along the way.

Meet Me in the Middle is a beautifully written book by both mother and daughter that helps bridge the gap to a long and rich relationship. All mothers desire a close relationship with their daughters, and daughters want their moms to understand and be proud of them. Sometimes as much as the desire is there, the connection is lost because neither knows how to make the connection. This book provides real-life practical tools to develop a long-lasting and fulfilling relationship between mother and daughter. * Karen Stubbs, founder, Birds on a Wire Moms *
Goodness gracious, I could have used this study when raising my two daughters through their teens! I'm fifty-eight and a grandmother, and my heart sometimes aches for my little thirteen-year-old self. She sure could have used this. What a sweet, thoughtful, and open discussion to guide you and your daughter through a really tricky, sometimes painful, but also beautiful chapter in your lives. * Leanne Morgan, American stand-up comedian; actress; author *
Having two daughters of my own, I would've loved to have had this tool to help navigate the tween and teen years more effectively. My daughters are fabulous women, my dearest friends, and I still believe we could benefit from these lessons today! I don't just recommend Sandra and Allie's book; I think it is a must-read for mothers and daughters everywhere who desire a stronger connection. * Pamela Gregg Foxworthy, Bible study leader; wife to comedian Jeff Foxworthy; mother; grandmother; Jesus follower *
I'm a mother to four daughters, and this book is gold! Sandra and Allie offer biblical truth connected to the struggles and worries my girls have each faced in their middle and high school years in a way that opens conversations between mother and daughter that often feel hard to navigate. Allie's youthful, conversational tone speaks directly to the heart of both my older teens as well as my youngest, a soon-to-be tweenager. Her stories connect to their world and the pressures they often walk through. Sandra wisely takes us mothers by the hand and walks us through big doctrines like identity, forgiveness, and sanctification, giving us clear language for our own spiritual growth as well as that of our girls. The mom-and-daughter activities and discussions are so fun and easy to carry out that you will look forward to your time each week with your precious daughter! The investment of your time and energy will pay rich dividends in your relationship with your child. * Bethany Kimsey, author, A Warrior Mama's Prayers *
Mamas and daughters, do not skip a single word of this book! As a mom to two girls--still in the thick of it with a rising ninth grader--I can tell you this for sure: no other book has brought both perspectives this well! Meet Me in the Middle is the guide every mom and daughter must read together. You will walk away armed with tools and practical advice to guide you during challenging times. I suggest you dog-ear Allie's endlessly useful '20 Rules for High School' now. Beyond that, this book will lead you both toward growth and victory in your relationship with each other, God, and your community as a whole. * Suzy Karadsheh, New York Times bestselling author; founder, TheMediterraneanDish.com *
Sandra and Allie have given mothers and daughters an incredible gift through Meet Me in the Middle. They've laid out a clear blueprint for navigating the teen years and intentionally nurturing the mother-daughter relationship. Implementing the truths found in this book will pay relational dividends years down the road! * Amy Rainer, teacher; founder, Etiquette with Amy *
Sandra and her amazing daughter, Allie, have given us moms such a great resource to help strengthen our mother-daughter connection. Meet Me in the Middle captures real-life issues to help us navigate our relationship through those tricky teen years. This book will sharpen you both spiritually and relationally! * Amy Groeschel, cofounder, Life.Church; founder, Branch15, a nonprofit ministry providing care to women *
This book is filled with lots of Scripture and thoughtful cues to help you and your daughter love Jesus and each other better. Allie and Sandra show us that the same truths--his truths--that help us run businesses, navigate illnesses, or even deal with difficult people are even apparent in the most tender of relationships between mothers and daughters. * Mandy Cathy, Andrew's wife; mom to four kids who keep her on the go *

ISBN: 9780310368670

Dimensions: 213mm x 138mm x 15mm

Weight: 208g

256 pages