The Fight for Us

'How do we overcome unmet expectations? How can we learn to communicate better? Is a healthier marriage even possible?' If you've asked these questions, this book is for you. With biblical wisdom and relatable vulnerability, Gabe and Rebekah Lyons walk through how to recognize what divides you and work toward a thriving marriage in a way that leaves you excited and hopeful. * Madison Prewett and Grant Troutt, bestselling authors, speakers, and podcast host *
Accessible. Hopeful. Practical. Vulnerable. Compelling. Gabe and Rebekah Lyons have written a direly needed, profoundly helpful 'us' book that neither of you is going to want to put down, as every chapter opens up your marriage to a level of connection and intimacy you've always hoped for. This is more than a mere book; it is a marriage lifeline--for genuine thriving. * Ann and Darryl Voskamp, New York Times bestselling author; farmer *
Gabe and Rebekah Lyons have courageously opened the door to their marriage journey, inviting us to learn from their struggles and triumphs. Their vulnerability, paired with practical wisdom, equips couples to not just survive but thrive in their marriages. The Fight For Us is a must-read for anyone who longs for a deeper, God-honoring connection with their spouse. Filled with humor and humility, it's not just a story; it's a map for healing and flourishing. * Benjamin and Kirsten Watson, NFL tight end, ESPN commentator; authors of bestselling books *
Gabe and Rebekah Lyons take an honest look at the sacredness and power in the words 'I do.' The words in this book bring vision, encouragement, and hope, reminding us of God's intention for the relationship between a man and a woman. By God's design, marriage is the foundation for a flourishing world. These two are unmatched in how they lead in truth and love through their vulnerability. * Chris and Lauren Tomlin, Grammy-winning worship artist *
Rebekah and Gabe Lyons been trusted friends for more than twenty years. Here they come alongside couples with fortifying and bolstering tools designed to carve out the wholehearted unions that God desires. Whether your relationship is in need a reminder, restoration, or full rescue, The Fight for Us, like a trusted field guide, will forge the way to a marriage that thrives. * Elisabeth and Tim Hasselbeck, New York Times bestselling author, Emmy Award–winning broadcaster; NFL quarterback, ESPN analyst, high school football coach *
The marriage of Gabe and Rebekah Lyons is a force for the kingdom, and The Fight for Us reflects their heart for God's design for marriage. Through their story, they've given us a guide to not just navigate conflict but to use it as a tool for deeper intimacy and partnership. Their faithfulness to each other and to Jesus shines brightly on every page. * Jonathan "JP" and Monica Pokluda, lead pastor, Harris Creek Church; author, Your Story Has a Villain; host, Becoming Something podcast *
This is a rare marriage book. It's not just written; it's lived. In a world of head knowledge and research, we all want something that moves us beyond where we find ourselves. And we usually want to know there are people who have lived the hard, done the work, and come out on the other side more whole and joyful because of it. Gabe and Rebekah Lyons are that couple. This book will draw you in. You'll find yourself saying, 'That's us too!' And you'll receive practical tools to be a better 'us' for each other. * Josh and Christi Straub, cofounders, Famous at Home *
We absolutely loved The Fight for Us. All-encompassing in topics, it constantly kept nudging us toward Jesus, and most of all, it feels like a marriage book written for the modern person facing all the difficulties of being a Christian and married today. The wisdom, humor, truth, and salience made this a book we couldn't put down. We'll be buying a boxful and handing them to any couple looking for an extra dose of help and encouragement. * Jefferson and Alyssa Bethke, New York Times bestselling author; founders, Family Teams *
We have been gleaning from Gabe and Rebekah Lyons for years through their events and writings, but over the past few years we've had the joy of establishing a relationship with them and walking through life together. We've listened to their vulnerable sharing about their marriage that has a depth of experience. They've been together long enough to speak with wisdom and not just storytelling. For several decades, they've developed healthy rhythms in marriage and parenting while wrestling with the challenges of building a marriage that thrives through sincerity and genuine kindness. Their raw honesty and playfulness bring an ease to the often daunting parts of marriage that most of us feel ill-equipped to face. Here they boil down years of academic research and counseling intensives into a concise framework of reflections to apply to our own journeys in marriage. * Hillary Scott Tyrrell and Chris Tyrrell, Grammy-winning artist, vocalist of country music group Lady A *
We've seen the beauty and strength of Gabe and Rebekah Lyons' marriage, and it's nothing short of inspiring. In The Fight for Us, they share the raw truth of their struggles and the transformative power of God's principles for marriage. Every couple needs this book. It's a game changer for marriages in today's culture and much cheaper than marriage counseling. We couldn't recommend it more. * Willie and Korie Robertson, stars of Duck Dynasty, bestselling authors *